Top 5 tips for white women in biracial relationship
I have gathered some information and tips for white woman from the experienced white woman in biracial dating. I would like to explain the complexity in biracial dating for white women. It is because, most white woman might have very little or no knowledge before involving in dating with people of different races. To provide sufficient knowledge and to create awareness for the white women here are some tips listed below which might helpfor a better biracial relationship / dating.
People, who never believe in the existence of biracial relationships, don’t go for a biracial date. A cute relationship is to provide enough personal space for couples to show their love and come to live with their life experience. People who are from a white dominated place, experience troubles or botheration because of racism. It is difficult for these types of persons (especially woman) to have a healthy biracial relationship. However, they can easily overcome this by concentrating on their partner rather than the society.
Tips for white woman
#1 - Relationship can never be built or sustained without respect, acceptance and acknowledgement. Never select your partner depending on their racialism and never disrespect them. Try to accept your non-white partner as they are. See the commonalities in them and respect the differences.
#2 - Your biracial relationship doesn’t exempt yourself from exploring privilege of color or being a racist. Most racist will have idea of having a biracial relationship. Their attitude has been inculcated by a white patriarchal that has designed a system of color normalization. The only method to get through this kind of biracial relationship is to feel empowered and not to lose hope.
#3 - You must be prepared to face misunderstandings and being ignored by your family, friends and surrounding before you enter into biracial dating. Most of black or minority people who exist in this world will frequently experience and encounter racism. The privilege of your racism is broken when you have decided to date biracially.
#4 - The thoughts and opinions about biracial dating are changing but not that fast enough. Biracial marriage was legalized in 1967. Before 1967 it is illegal to marry a men or women from a person of different race in United States of America. Though biracial marriage was legalized twenty one percent of resident of republic Alabama still think that it must not be legalized. Twenty nine percent of people in Mississippi are against biracial marriages. Until you are ready to face bullshit from your racist society, please never indulge in a biracial relationship.
#5 - Till now most people think that people from different race can’t have a good relationship and come together. To be true from my side I would say, “Love is Love”. It depends on the nature of person not racism. If you dare to face the problem caused by biracial dating then go for it.